How to overcome personal weakness?

Personal weakness is now accompanied by many young people, though his seriousness but at the same time treat him if the young man's determination, the wire and the road leading to it.The people, naturally do not like a weak personality, the one man that the oscillator does not improve the decision-making in the face of others, not good at expressing his views and defend them, and improve behavior in crisis and difficult things.So it was handling double the personal order of importance and prestige, and worthy of youth taking care of him, that it is not necessary for a young man from reality and not illusion, many believe in themselves weak personality, especially if they can get to a demand by a specific or achieve the purpose sought him, and this exaggeration of them and contempt for themselves, and perhaps led them this illusion to other diseases need to be addressed, and it must be noted that a person may have a strong personal position or place, is not available to him in a position or place, the matter if a relative, and there is a certain of personal weakness, but there are certain aspects of the signs of personality disorder should be addressed.Manifestation of personal weakness:
1 - an inability to make any decision, even in personal matters.2 - fear and shame of the speech of others, or their conversation.3 - not to control the emotions and feelings. But drifting behind them without knowing the consequences.4 - dependency is stronger in opinion, thought and movements, and others.5 - the large number of the complaint and resort to others, even in the simplest things.6 - the tradition of others in their movements and dress and even their bodies and their views and morals.