How to Win the others ?!

Human nature is social, Yanes to the batch and the associated meeting and others, the relationship is not fun and Mansh only if it is based on affection, love and good handling, but the success of these relationships should pay attention to human behaviors in dealing with others.
The first of these behaviors is the dimension of selfishness and love of self and individuality, self-love, the morality of repellent that lead to the loss of many close ties sustainable, and the more a person is away from this creation as far as the cause of the others near him and love him.
Give others a chance to talk
Way to talk is an important factor in winning others and strengthen the relationship with them, Vaataahm opportunity to talk and express their opinions freely, and not to grab the talking is important, and calm during the conversation and the volume down and not move the hands in an exaggerated manner, all that which supports your status when others and invite them to listen to you talk and benefit from it, add to that lack of speech and defamation and vitriol in conflict with the views of disapproval and contempt of their business, all of these things lose their human status and love in the hearts of dealing with them.
Light shade with sobriety and solemnity with Altbst
Sobriety with wit and Altbst while maintaining dignity are key factors in winning the other, the more a person is a measure of sobriety - which means not recklessness, impulsivity foolish - that was claimed for the respect of others to him and their closeness to him, to trust in his actions and reactions, and sobriety does not mean that be human Mthjama depressed but on the contrary, it is with Rzanth must be a light shade, simple in its approach away from the pride and buildup, which leads to hatred and hatred of others.
Brother, the young man and you're dealing with people Ensure that such treatment be based on the average away from the hyperbole, there is no Tazmanm Vtkhavhm and Trjohm attaches your heart to them, and do not Tgvohm Fathtqarham and Tzdrém and snobs them, but were intermediate operating in that are required by sharee'ah and always remember to say Prophet peace be upon him Oqrbakm me a house that the Day of Resurrection Ahasankm ethics
Help others and spend their
I know that whenever a person is interested in things his brothers and friends, eager to stand by their side would hasten to do what he can provide the service and known to them, was the closest to their hearts and their love comes first.I know that people are not equal in ethics and treatment, there is good manners gentle Muasher polite talk, and one is on the contrary, fierce creatures elusive, indecent talk, and if the treatment of the first is easier and more beautiful the treatment of type II requires patience and striving, it is not of creation and the wisdom to face a bad attitude and treatment of such ugliness, and unless you have increased it worse, and could push such a transaction the other party to the more insulting and ill-treatment other than the creation of litigations with the patience for that.
Finally, you will need to put yourself and you deal with others in the position it deserves its appropriate, praising all the depraved and lift yourself about all the creation of obnoxious, and be highly motivated good manners precious in is large, easy in a non-humiliating, loving to others moving to your brothers yourself leaving aside errors and gaffes and not their master who is close to them.